should i test for HIV?
although i am married, i have not got laid for months now, i have issues with my wife, so I had sex yesterday with some girl from a night club, we had oral sex and deep French kissing. Of course I don’t know if she is HIV pos or not, I did use a condom, but I am still very afraid from the oral part. Can I test now for HIV, is it transmittable through oral sex or i should not bother, please be specific, cause i am married with a baby who’s still breastfeeding and of course i will have sex with my wife again when things get resolved, so my wife and my baby would get infected too.
There is always a slim chance of HIV infection from oral sex, but it is VERY low risk. The kissing is not a worry.
Did you have oral sex on her, or her on you? If it was her on you there is no worries either.
HIV has a 3 month window period, it usually shows up 90% of the time after 30 days, 94-96% after 60 and we say 99.6% after 90 days. You might test now, the again after 90 days.
I personally think you would be at a greater risk for an STD than HIV.
If you don’t check out and you had something you could infect your wife, but your baby will not be at risk.
HIV and STDs are transmitted by sex and sexual contacts.
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